Things I do / do not want for my Handfasting

WANT
Off white cotton/linen shift
A gold cord
Bonfire
Beach
Sunflowers and other Autumn colored flowers EVERYWHERE
Flower Garlands for all females, a huge one for me
Flower lei type things for all males
Ivy
Pagan Clergy
A home made, symbolic feast
Cherry Almond Cake
Wine, Juice, Punch and many mixed drinks
Many Vegetarian/Vegan dishes as well as meat dishes
Certain friends and family
Mom, Dad, Christy, Richard and Autumn (If they want to)
Granny & Gramps
Great One
Uncle Chris
Aunt Gwen, Jason, Nicole, Jeremy, Cindy
Aunt Colette and Charlie
Lisa S & Matt J
Dick & Noah Hufford
Amy, Michael, Andrea, Matthew, Alice
Anthony and Rachel
Jim and Barb
Care, Bobby, Billy
Trish & Jim Mian
Chuck Kohler
Kirk & Nancy
Carol and Gary
Jerry & Paula
Jenny, Steve, Justin, Emily & Nick, Brian & Val, Kait & Justin, Jessica & Scott, Michelle, Gabby, Cassie, David Lloyd, Corinne & Nik, Arielle, Annick and Michael, Tanja and Alex, Chrissy?, Megan & Sean, Cristin & Dave, Maria and Sheryl, Shawn, Rick M, Jessie Orr & John, Jessie Wheeler & John, Holly & Jim, Jenny Ohmann, Ed, Brit and Amber Orr, Wendi & Cheyenne, Kellie & Chris, Laura W, Lindsay & Jason
Tigger & Diane
Paul & Carrie Hinderliter
Mark & Sheri
Harry T & Kaitlin
George & Joanne S
The list will grow
A video of the whole day, from when I wake until the celebration ends.
All guests to participate
Jenny and maybe Shawn or Brian to officiate

DO NOT WANT
Shoes

A lot of jewelry

Walls

Modern music

A traditional ceremony

Traditional vows

Traditional anything

Catering

Gifts

Limo

Anyone from the Easton side of the family besides dad

ROSES

Makeup unless it’s light, simple and barely noticable

Trash
Recycle EVERYTHING
Composting

Soda or anything else that’s THAT unhealthy

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